Simple Tips To Build A Strong Relationship, Marriage

By Adetunji Ololade, Mr Money 

Loving someone and Getting yourself Into a intimate relationship is like buying A new car, aside from the stress you go through before getting the car, it won't function immediately unless the features and all particulars is complete. 

A relationship or marriage can't work out unless you build it, so how do you build your relationship and marriage? 

Below are some tips to guide you through using a car as a case study.

COMMITMENT

You need commitment as your seatbelt; For this your relationship to survive you better learn how to stay committed to it. There is no how you won't meet people better than your partner but commitment which is your seatbelt will help you stick to your partner no matter what offers other people give you.  Remember you are the driver of your relationship you must learn how to use seatbelt which is same as staying committed to your relationship so it won't crash. You may not value what you have until when you lose it.

MONEY

Money is the fuel of Every Relationship infact most people will argue that love isn't about money, yes that's true, love is sweet but money makes it more sweeter. A car without a fuel cannot function same as relationship without money. Don't get me wrong, not until you buy him an iPhone or you foot all her bills. Sometimes if you have you can buy recharge card, Mini gifts, buy something nice on your partner birthday. Some women doesn't care about your money but the fact still remains that they want you to spend on them. It is not necessary you buy a full tank fuel. Don't do more than your capability in a relationship. 

TRUST

Trust is the Engine of every successful relationship. A car without engine can't function even if it has fuel. What am saying here is that even if you have money and still don't have trust In your partner, such relationship is prone to collapse. If trust had died in your relationship that may just be the beginning of your relationship downfall. Get a good engine for your relationship and what is this engine? 

TRUST!.

COMMUNICATION

Love dies when there's no communication hence there's is a need for frequent communication in your relationship. Call your partner and check on them, spend quality time with each other, talk to lengths.

HONESTY

Honesty and your Career are your particulars. If your car papers is complete you won't be disturbed by road safety and you won't bothered bribing anyone just to pass by. This means you shouldn't be stupid because of love, make sure you are honest with yourself and also with your partner. Let your A be A and Build your career together. This category explain further that Relationship isn't just about sex you can get your particulars first. The particulars is your bride price, your pride, your career, education etc. Imagine getting pregnant out of wedlock, people will still query you and you may blame your self so to avoid story that touches don't drop your career for love you can just build both if you are honest with yourself.

LOVE

Love is the tyres of relationship, without love your relationship can't survive even if you have money, trust and have PHD certificate, your certificate and money can't get you love. Love is like grass, it grows by watering it with communication. If you want to build and grow  love in your relationship you had better communicate with your partner frequently. A car without tyres cant travel so as a relationship without love can't move forward.

CARING 

MAKE CARING YOUR SIDE MIRROR. Caring for your partner in your relationship is a prove you value your relationship. Side mirrors in a car shows vehicles coming from behind and beneath same as care in relationship; how do you know s/he is okay when you don't call? 

How do you show you love them when you don't care? 

How do you know what he/she is passing through when you don't ask? 

A car without side mirror is incomplete same as relationship without care... before you know boom another person who cares already snatches him or her from you because of your carelessness.

MAKE GOD YOUR FIRE EXTINGUISHER

Every car is expected to have a fire extinguisher should in case of any accident same as putting God first in your relationship because God himself is love and he who doesn't know God can't understand what true love means. There is no relationship or marriage without challenges but with God and your faith you will strive through.  

Not everyone is pleased with your happy relationship/marriage. So how will you quench that challenges that want to collapse your relationship you need to make God your fire extinguisher and have faith. 

Faith gives hope while hope gives patience which are the major tools needed for your relationship to survive.

In a nutshell, Building A relationship and marriage is just like Planting crops, it won't germinate the day you plant it. There's no perfect man on earth and no one is an icon of knowledge. There are millions of beautiful women and handsome men all over the world you will always meet them just pick one and build your career together. (May God help you)

 

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